The second characteristic, Sense of Ownership and Partnership -“Taking responsibility for your value-added contribution and working in cooperation and harmony with others– a win/win relationship”. 

If we just took these words into any arena of our life and asked, “How do we currently make them real?”, that is, how do they already manifest themselves?  We can continue to build on our strengths.  We can then ask, “What can we begin to do differently to foster this characteristic in our relationships?”